Default to metadata cache for dependency-cruiser and disable cache on CI

See merge request https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/184319



Merged-by: Kev Kloss <kkloss@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Kev Kloss <kkloss@gitlab.com>
Reviewed-by: Kev Kloss <kkloss@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Lohit Peesapati <lpeesapati@gitlab.com>