Merge branch 'sh-update-grpc-1.56.0' into 'master'

Update grpc to v1.55.0 and add monkey patch

See merge request https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/125327



Merged-by: Doug Stull <dstull@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Doug Stull <dstull@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Stan Hu <stanhu@gmail.com>