Merge branch 'stomlinson/load-balancer-low-statement-timeout-2' into 'master'

Reapply "Merge branch 'stomlinson/use-pod-ff-for-load-balancer-statement-timeout' into 'master'"

See merge request https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/169019



Merged-by: Matt Kasa <mkasa@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Max Orefice <morefice@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Matt Kasa <mkasa@gitlab.com>
Reviewed-by: Max Orefice <morefice@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Simon Tomlinson <stomlinson@gitlab.com>