Clean up java PreCommit (#29894)

* Clean up java PreCommit

* Move SQL tasks to SQL precommit
  for Java11/17 SQL precommit, still run a small group of tasks as before

* Remove kotlin precommit from Java PreCommit
  Duplicate tests already run in Kotlin Example PreCommit

* Arrange and remove duplicate tasks in javaPreCommit

* Add timeout to java-fn-execution

* Add JvmVerification to sql precommit

* Remove jvmverification for :sqlPreCommit

it is done by ":sdks:java:extensions:sql:preCommit" now