fix: Fix project and workload resource realtime update

Created by: leoendless

What type of PR is this?

/kind bug

What this PR does / why we need it:

Fix workspace’s project list realtime updating.

Fix federated workload resource status realtime updating.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes https://github.com/kubesphere/kubesphere/issues/2229

Special notes for reviewers:

Additional documentation, usage docs, etc.: