fix: Fix the related resources when deleting the service

Created by: harrisonliu5

What type of PR is this?

/kind bug

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Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #https://github.com/kubesphere/console/issues/2374 #https://github.com/kubesphere/console/issues/2388

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Does this PR introduced a user-facing change?

None

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