fix: Fix some notification issues

Created by: xuliwenwenwen

Signed-off-by: xuliwenwenwen liwenxu@yunify.com

What type of PR is this?

/kind bug

What this PR does / why we need it:

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes ##2315 (closed) ##2299 (closed) ##kubesphere/kubesphere4269 ##2285 (closed) ##2281 (closed) ##2279 (closed)

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Does this PR introduced a user-facing change?

Additional documentation, usage docs, etc.: