Merge branch '384081-thread-memory-fail-fast' into 'master'

Improve memory instrumentation check, re-enable spec

See merge request https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/105478



Merged-by: Felipe Artur <fcardozo@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Roy Zwambag <rzwambag@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Thong Kuah <tkuah@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Felipe Artur <fcardozo@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Matthias Kaeppler <mkaeppler@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Thong Kuah <tkuah@gitlab.com>