More fine-grained metrics for sidekiq workers

We currently only measure the global (node-level) business in terms
of jobs being processed. We would instead like to be able to know
for each sidekiq process how saturated it is in terms of actual
concurrency vs requested/max concurrency.

This patch does the following:

- add a worker/process dimension to all existing metrics
- introduce a new metric to observe concurrency per process

by relating "actual job count per process" to "max job count per
process" we can then obtain some sort of saturation metric.