Enable force cancellation of stuck build jobs

See merge request https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab/-/merge_requests/179137



Merged-by: drew stachon <730684-drew@users.noreply.gitlab.com>
Approved-by: James Rushford <jrushford@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Paulo Barros <pbarros@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Max Woolf <mwoolf@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Jarka Košanová <jarka@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Lysanne Pinto <lpinto@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: Jessie Young <jessieyoung@gitlab.com>
Approved-by: drew stachon <730684-drew@users.noreply.gitlab.com>
Reviewed-by: drew stachon <730684-drew@users.noreply.gitlab.com>
Reviewed-by: Jessie Young <jessieyoung@gitlab.com>
Reviewed-by: Paulo Barros <pbarros@gitlab.com>
Reviewed-by: Anthony Juckel <ajuckel@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Lysanne Pinto <lpinto@gitlab.com>
Co-authored-by: Anthony Juckel <ajuckel@gmail.com>