[main] Update dependencies from dotnet/runtime dotnet/efcore (#42322)

[main] Update dependencies from dotnet/runtime dotnet/efcore


 - React to runtime changes

 - Update src/Servers/Kestrel/Transport.Quic/src/Internal/QuicConnectionListener.cs

Co-authored-by: Chris Ross <chrross@microsoft.com>

 - Update src/Servers/Kestrel/shared/test/TransportTestHelpers/HttpSysHttp3SupportedAttribute.cs

Co-authored-by: Chris Ross <chrross@microsoft.com>

 - Update src/Servers/Kestrel/shared/test/TransportTestHelpers/MsQuicSupportedAttribute.cs

Co-authored-by: Chris Ross <chrross@microsoft.com>

 - Update src/Servers/Kestrel/Transport.Quic/src/WebHostBuilderQuicExtensions.cs

Co-authored-by: Chris Ross <chrross@microsoft.com>